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hello everybody! -_-" After a long time... I am finally back to blog again. It's not that I don't want to... but somehow, I am waiting for my inspirations to be back! hehe... wanna wish everyone a MeRrY mErRy ChRistmAs! I love all of u! and also a HaPpy bOxing day! Enjoy unwrapping all those surprises k! *_*

Ok... well~ these few days, have been sort of 'hibernating' at home. haha... noPe! I am not grounded. But somehow I feel like it's time that the bird returns to the cage where she belongs. haha. Yeah~

Hmn... have been thinking alot lately. If you realised, I didn't have much latest entries. Instead, my mood icon have been changing constantly. After so many things that had happened recently... I finally realised the several hurdles that you definitely can't escape in every different phase of your life. Hmn... I should say that it's a growing process bah. Whether it is the friends around you, your family or your love ones... guess all of us will have to learn how to go through the ups and downs together. And there is where the close-knitness among our strong ties come into play.

Yup... regarding relationship wise... I realised that it can never be so smooth sailing or extremely fairy-tale liked. Guess the time had come for us to view our differences and take another step towards understanding each other better. I feel that being able to compromise and to be sensitive to each other is the most important thing in a relationship. The more that person means to you... and the stronger the love you have for him... it will definitely hurt you even deeper when things somehow do not turn out right. Alot of problems can bloom as quickly as a contagious disease. Just like a flame which may set up an explosion. Simply unpredictable.


When one cries for that special one you deeply love... that shows how much his presence is to you. And alot of relationships end, out of a moment of impulse. I suppose no one hopes to land up in a similar situation. At times, trivial matters such as the lack of time spent together or even communication break down can all lead to a failure in a relationship. yup... and of course in every single thing there is definitely a price to pay. When you get into one... you do not only look forward to the happy and sweet times... but you will have to also expect those heart-broken and sad moments. Your tears will never stop tumbling. It's either because you are too touched by his acts... or simply too speechless in any disagreements. Yup... and all I can say is to treasure the love ones around you.

"What if tomorrow never comes?" have it ever crossed your mind? Although we do discuss about such emotional matters at times, but how many of us do actually bear this thought all the time?! You may think that this is a pessimistic way of living your life... however I think not. I am not saying that you will have to fear your life out that you or your love ones are gonna leave you soon... but this mindset will help you to learn how to shower more care and love for the people around you. I believe that one day all of us would like to leave this world with no regrets. And we have told all those around us that " We Love them!".

Probably each time you meet a friend on the way... you can simply greet him or her... or even say something nice. Furthermore, if you can... it's never dumb to tell your love ones how much you love them each time you see them. yup...

Well~ have been thinking alot lately too. I have realised how vulnerable our lives are. Not only to the dangers lingering around us... but we are also vulnerable to ourselves. I am sure that you have heard of the saying that " Man's greatest enemies are simply themselves". Human beings are fragile. Although we put on a strong front after a fall and say that we are fine. However, that's probably a lie. Perhaps, deep down inside us... we feel so hurt as though our heart have been stabbed by a thousand knives. But no matter what, we will have to stand up. Because there's still a long way to go... and we can't let the people around us down. Most importantly we are accountable for ourselves. Our actions, thoughts and emotions. We are responsible for ourselves.

Personally, I have finally tasted the downs of a relationship. I would say that I have learnt from it.. and I believe that it's a normal process that every pair have to go through. I am not trying to be sadistic... But sometimes have you ever realised that only through quarrels and conflicts, then we can tell the other party the innermost thoughts and worries that have been weighing on our minds. It's a time whereby we can also come clear with things. It will allow both parties to understand the situation better. Perhaps this can also be a way of discarding loads off your heart. Only through such quarrels... it will also grant you the courage to say all these things. However, just a word of caution, do watch your words when you are feeling hot-tempered. Remember to refrain from hurting words... cause it may leave a lasting crack in a mended heart. Haha... sound as though I am an experienced love consultant. Well~ actually I am not... I am still learning, and by putting yourself into the shoes of others, it will help you to prepare yourself in advance.

Hmn~ caught a few glimpse at the Charity Show tonight. Heard something from this patient who unfortunately left not long ago. He said " Everybody's bonus is the year-end bonus... but my bonus is to see the sunrise every morning." I thought that it was extremely touching and inspiring. well~ life is a cycle and although it may end with a tear or a smile... we still live our life through. For the peple around us and for the many more wonderful things that we want to discover on this Earth.

yup yup... to all the people around me and my love ones... I love you! And you guys mean alot to me~ mUACk!