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~Phew~ FinAlLy the PromoS had OffIcally ended yesterday!!! omg... life has been extremely demanding during this period of time... Fluctuations of StReSs, AnxIeTy, WoRRieS anD neRvOuSNess have been running through my whole body... it seems as though i can never eliminate them from my life. the sYmptoms of being paranoid easily.. ahahaha =P
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Anyway... lucky thing that it's over! another hurdle that we had gotten through... yup yup.. =X And now... the holidays are approaching...(ReAlLy?) hmn... not so true after all.. they are in fact informally labelled as 'Long study breaks'.. haha. OOoH... and the horrifying... nerve-breaking pw oral presentation that is just around the corner.. seriously gotta jia you! and also the upcoming chinese A's... hoho.. CamBridGe papers are always so unpredictable... *scary*

Yeah~ lots of things had really changed, or i should say progressed during this period of time. Some sweet n pleasant surprises that are truly unexpected but really welcomed... haha.. =x

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Okie... shall head straight for my topic of discussion today... I have 2 in mind actually... haha

=======> Teamwork <=========

TeAmwork... as commonly defined, it's the involvement of each and every single person working together... towards common goals.. as a team~ WeLl 'teamwork' may sound more like a formal term that is more commonly used officially among students... colleagues etc. But if any of u guys have been in a clinque..(which i believe most of u out there have ever experienced this...) every single person is as equally important. It's because we started off as a whole, TOGETHER... and if anyone chooses to backout or to discard this 'team' of friends... then it's equivalent to an incomplete jigsaw puzzle... and u will never be able to unveal the complete beautiful picture at the end of the day. In fact, it's the same logic here... when a quarter of a circle is missing... it can never be replaced by another square. Similarly... every single one is unique and special in his very own way... someone who's worth the love and care of his friends.

Have u ever wondered... without the presence of teamwork which also means co-operation.. what will our world be like? We don't have a peaceful world now.. especially with the existence of terrorism and all... and if teamwork didn't exist... we will probably have a disintegrated earth. Teamwork is not simply just playing ur part.. getting it off and done with. It also means to look at things from a bird's eye view. We look at it at a macro level... and we have to always take every single factor into consideration.. as long as it is the main concern of the team. Yes... humans are selfish by nature... there's no doubt about that. However... there are times when we seriously need to put aside all this individualistic thoughts and that strong pride of ours. Being able to learn how to accomodate with one another.. is the best scenario. This doesn't mean that u are deprieved of ur chance to voice out ur own opinions. In fact.. by sharing ur feelings and thoughts with ur grp members is the best way to avoid miscommunications at the end of the day. And miscommunications is mostly the causal factor that leads to the failure of some things at times. Regardless if it applies to a grp of ppl or a couple in a relationship.

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========> LovE aT fIrst sIghT <=========

Yesh... what a weird topic to discuss about so abruptly... haha~ but it's just a sudden thought.. something that I have observed in the ppl around me and even through tv dramas~ well... love at first sight.. seems more like a superficial term..it's extremely subjective and controversial i shld say. It's up to one to believe it or not~ If one haven't experienced it.. then probably he wouldn't believe so much in it... everything may simply just sound coincidental to him. Yup...

Well... to me... a hopeless romantic as usual... I do believe in such stuff at times... and I find such a situation extremely magical and beautiful. It's as though the brightest shimmering star in that dark sky... had caught ur eye.

Hmn... perhaps 'love' at first sight can only be proven if u really do feel for another person consistently. He's always the one up in ur mind... and the one that u never fail to miss... His absence is always noticed.. and his mere presence can bring a smile to ur face. However, at times such feelings can be also classified as a 'crush'... so one have to really be able to distinguish between these.

For some other relationships that do not really last or will simply expire after a few weeks... are probably considered 'puppy love'. It's probably just the sudden liking for each other... that have caused both parties to be so attracted to each other bah... yup...

Anyway.. every new love u have found... can be considered as a new learning experience... and it probably signifies a new beginning for both parties. Whatever that may eventually come in the way.. the only way out is to solve it out a step at the time. We can never predict what's impending... and by thinking too much will become a persisting problem itself too~ Yup... it's true to learn how to treasure what we have now and to leave the past... however, it probably takes some time for one to adapt to it. Yes... every relationship comes with a responsibility ... whether or not it will work out at the end of the day... we do not have the answer to it. However... maybe the process it's more important bah... hmn... guess we shldn't be bothered by the outcome of it... or else it may turn out to be a burden for both parties... and u will never be able to cross ur own hurdle.

yeah... so much reflections and maybe craps over here... haha... anyway... stay tuned to more updates lo! =)