HaPpiness Is in the Air~

~*Happiness is all around*~

hehe... lately, lots of things have happened. Hmn.. at least for me. Yup, really enjoy his presence alot. As time passes, I realised that he means alot to me. I do really appreciate everything that he has done. His love, care and also the time sacrificed... *really thanks alot dear~*

In fact, I think that in this world... all of us have ever experienced some form of happiness. Whether simple, complex, short-termed or even lasting ones. Well~ it's subjective... and how you wanna measure it depends on your own feelings. All I can say, is to follow your heart. Well... at least when it comes to choosing the route to your own happiness.

Joy and happiness is all around. It only depends on when you will pick it up and how you are going to maintain this kind of feeling. To say the truth, all these can be considered as a mind game. In another words, the choice lies in you. If you choose to be happy, to remain optimistic despite of the failures you face in life at times.. then you will be able to feel the true happiness. Some of you may wonder, in this case un't you deceiving yourself then? Well.. it's a matter of having an appropriate mindset I should say. If you happen to fail in something, it can always turn out to be a blessing in disguise. Take it and give it a better shot next time. Allow it to motiviate u and to not put you down. As some may say.. you never learn how to walk before falling. And no one's perfect right?!

Perfection is an outcome... after you have undergone true hardship and just imagine the tremendous amount of time and effort you have invested in it. Well~ at times, I think that "perfection is in imperfection" ... contradicting as it may sound. However, probably a person that is too perfect... can be a problem too. Firstly, it's hard to find someone of a similar frequency...and you end out faulting each other all the time. On the other hand, perfection is also subjective. For some... scoring full marks for an exam is a perfect score. However.. to another.. being able to maintain such an achievement and attitude throughout the rest of your life.. is then considered perfect. How perfect is PERFECT, you have to justify for yourself.

Therefore perfection is something intangible... and it can only be truly considered so.. when u truly recognise it. Why do I say that perfection can be found in imperfection at times? Just take a look at the people around you.
U love them because of who they really are right? In another words, you do accept their flaws and short-comings too. As time goes by, you may just be too used to all these flaws of that special one... and it becomes a part and parcel kind of thing. And the love u have for this person... will actually paint you a beautiful and perfect picture of that special one. He will not appear to be what he originally is if those flaws are not there anymore. In fact, sometimes... you remember the other person better because of all these. As for outsiders... to them, all these negative points may make that person seem less perfect. So unless you are able to put yourself into the shoes of others... you will never be able to see things from another point of view. Just remember that you may mean the world to another and also vice-versa.

And all these, sums up my point about love. Love is always existing... and it takes many forms. If some of you have realised... most of my entries do touch on a little about love.. or even about emotions. Well~ it's because I feel that human beings are all interconnected by it. I would say that it lives with us throughout our life. Even when you are hurt.. or even in the process of healing your heart breaks.. it's also because, it has got to do with the matters of your heart. During this period of time... if u noticed, you are also receiving a different form of love. Moral support and encouragement from your friends and family is also another kind of additional love. And if one loses someone close eventually... it could be because you have decided that it's probably time to let go. And here, it's probably a new chance for you to find another person who is more worth of your love. However, whatever it is, although one may get confused about how u feel at times... don't fret. Because it will just deterioriate the whole situation... Just remember that, at the end of the day... there's someone out there that was made specially for you.

yeah.. so much crapping today... haha~ thanks for popping by... tata